Why Is She Getting Away With It?

*tongue in cheek post alert*

If you have ever wondered why ‘runs’ girls seem to be getting ahead faster than ‘good’ girls in terms of marrying (and marrying well) you are not alone. I have had people say to me I can’t believe XYZ is getting married and I’m still single! For some reason I thought about this a few minutes ago while I was taking a bubble bath (random, I know) and here are some reasons I came up with

1.       They don’t date. In the real sense of it they really don’t. Take a 24 year old runs girl for example. She’s probably not dating anyone in her university, she hardly has toasters her age range and doesn’t waste time falling in and out of love with young men that spread gist. Believe it or not, most young males have diarrhea of the mouth, men above 60 are too busy jetting off to Monaco with the latest sweet thing or making money to be carrying rumors

2.       Their numbers are 'low'. The numbers that can you can prove that is. These are people that can look you in the face and say I have no exes, or I have only dated one guy. Who have you seen me with on this campus? The crazy thing is they are not lying. They really haven’t been with anyone you can point out. Apart from the rumors that go around them that they are ‘bad’, no one can really say XYZ dated such and such. Whereas good girl ABC who fell in love and had sex with the love of her life is condemned because that one had his friends hiding in his closet to show he’s the man. Girls who date actively have a more traceable history.

3.       They are not ‘spotted’. Their runs happen in very dark places at odd hours. No witnesses, you don’t see them putting kissing pictures on facebook and deleting them 3 months later due to a bad break-up. Believe it or not, these girls hardly have any life drama (except the messy ones that fight over dollar but we shall not even go into that). Specific gist about them hardly spreads. The ‘good’ girl on the other hand will tell her friend about how her boyfriend put it in this and that place and that one will go and sing like a canary.

4.       Men are insecure. They would rather deal with men from your past that they don’t know and probably will never meet than men that are in the same circle and of the same age

5.       Men love a good challenge. That girl looks at a 35 year old banker like please you can’t afford me. Somewhere in his man head he processes the information and concludes that he will die there.

6.       I actually think some Nigerian men would rather forgive a repentant girl who had sex for money than be with a woman who had sex because she just loves to have sex.

7.       This is the most important reason. Unexplainable things happen. It gets to the point after pondering and musing you just have to give up and say I don’t know why the hell it happens like this.

      Morale of the Story: Life is just weird. Don't judge anyone. What will be will be! Stop checking for the next person, everyone's life will turn out the way God has destined.

xx

CosmoDiva

P.S. I'll bring vals gist tomorrow